Frustation is a situation where someone is upset, too many problems, pressure or otherwise, so it can not resolve it, can also be interpreted as a situation experienced by a person, when his desire could not be achieved or blocked to be realized or it could be ideal or his desire blocked so can not be realized.
Usually the cause of the frustation related to various physical changes and mental which can lead to conflict. As for the causes of frustation among others:
1. identity crisis
Adolescent experiencing identity confusion among children or adult. Teenager are often confused to defend the behavior of children or adult. Caused frustration in problems solving, teenager with little experience to solve problems independently, different at the time of the child who is still always get help from parent, while teens are required to be independent.
2. Social change and the role of parent
Very real social change at all in the development of youth, from the influence of parent (in childhood) to peer influence. Peer pressure and conformity color values that exist in adolescent. Teenager will do anything to be accepted in a peer environment even though it conflicts with his private self. Peer acceptance is very important for teenager. Conflict occur between individual self-concept with the concept of neighborhood teenagers who require teen to behave according to the group. Peer rejection of self teen teen causing frustation.
Conflicts with parents often occur in adolescence. In general, parental influence is not noticed by teenager. Teenage parents often oppose giving rise to conflict between parent and teen. The conflict usually stems from a misunderstanding problem, communication difficulties or differences between adolescent norms with their parent.
Conflicts with parents often occur in adolescence. In general, parental influence is not noticed by teenager. Teenage parents often oppose giving rise to conflict between parent and teen. The conflict usually stems from a misunderstanding problem, communication difficulties or differences between adolescent norms with their parent.
3. Emotions are unstable
Labile emotions that cause adolescents often swayed by the appearance of disappointment and suffering, increasing tensions, contradictions and crises of adjustment, dreams and fantasies, dating and romance, alienation from normal adult life and culture. Frustration occurs because of the emotional maturity that can not manage emotions in him.
4. The idea are not realistic
Frustation occurs when goals are not achieved the expected teens because the idea that exist in the unrealistic teenager teen tend to identify with something that did not are realistic.
5. Problem of learning difficulties
Frustation caused by difficulties in learning, including: failure to learn, not grade, is not accepted in schools, not in accordance with the interests and talents, or conflict with the teacher.
6. Problems of sexuality
Frustation occur related to adolescent sexuality is a curiosity of great sex is not supported by good sex education by parents and school so that children tend to seek out their own because parents tend about sex. The way that teenager tend to be negative is taken for example by reading porn sites or free sex.
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